I love to watch lovers relating to one another. Love relationships are played out in movie themes, plays, music and current events on the news. So much so, that many of us have distorted views of what a romantic relationship is and unrealistic expectations of how to love one another.
As we watch with curiosity and amazement—the tendency is to judge our own personal relationships from these highly visible encounters. There is no way to know why these relationships didn’t work. Where is the help on how to repair a relationship?
On more than one occasion I have found myself commenting about someone’s relationship:
“I don’t know why Janice and Bobby ever got married, they are total opposites. He’s outgoing and she’s dull and lifeless.
On the other hand, I went to Tanya and John’s wedding– they were a beautiful couple and seemed so in love. Didn’t last 2 years.
But I must say the real shocker wasNancy and Tom—married 35 years. Now, if you stay together that long—why would you be getting a divorce?
I should be shocked at some of these lost relationships. But again, I wonder how to repair a relationship—is there a tool to help couples create the relationship they desire?
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Out of all the divorces we’ve prepared, I heard similar statements:
I’d rather be married
I still love him but I don’t know how to make it work
I wish I knew how to get his attention—I want to feel loved.
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Do you have Your Bangin Summer Body Yet? Well, Come and Get It!
Have you ever heard of someone working out their organ system? I mean working toning their heart, liver, lungs? Maybe not, probably sounds strange lol. There are simple movements that can assist in keeping you healthy like for instance walking, yoga and tai qi. Qi Gong has so many benefits if you practice it regularly. It’s so good that i wrote about it on this blog before. I’m currently on my Kundalini yoga thang, i’ll tell you about that one next time. Back to Qi Gong though, if you want to have more energy, more will power, a wider aura, to increase your magnitizim and be happy inside and out. You have to try Qi Gong out for real. I have a teacher who taught me most of what i know about Qi gong. I will post a link to the video where you can learn too if you would like. Oh yes, Qi gong will help you sleep better, focus longer, regulate your blood pressure too. Sounds good huh?
There are benefits that come out everyday about exercises that no one would think would have the great benefits they have. This is no exception. Trust me I’m 34 and I’m getting older by the minute but i enjoy having a body that is happy, healthy and together to my standards. Qi gong works the entire body, and i notice it works your buns too. It worked mine out anyway. Beyond that, I feel younger than what i really am. I know that.How do you feel right now? Do you need some more juice to get going? Well, here you go…look up this work out when you’re done.
What’s your standard healthy- hot-body look like? Take some notes on this one. Qi gong is one thing that does a body good. Did you get that? You better! By the time you write your list I would have just gotten finished with my Qi gong routine. I honestly stopped working out to write some of this article because the results I’m getting are some powerful from this stuff. So, lets get into it..why Qi gong? What the heck it is anyway? It’s a type of martial arts practice actually. This type of martial arts is for the cultivation of your life force energy though. Life force meaning, the invisible body that mobilizes your entire physical body. Confusing? of course it is! It’s all good though, you’ll get it. Trust.
I can’t see your face from where i am but Okay you seem a bit more interested in this exercise now that you noticed the booty lifting part that you’re fully tuned in. i got you..well Qi gong is good for the entire body!
And even though the type of Qi gong i mostly focus on is medical Qi gong which works the inside of the body..yes the inside not the outside..but it does both though trust me. So you get the benefits of working the organs, and outside of the body and your booty… I have to get going now. Look for that information on where to buy a great qi gong video. It’s coming soon. Enjoy your day and peace and love ya’ll. 123Blast off!
Ever since I can clearly remember I shared a love of reading with my father. All I wanted to do was to learned about how to communicate better when I was in grade school. I never waited for class to start to read because I always had a book with me. I’m a passionate reader as I’m sure you are too. No matter what, I read daily. It’s my favorite way to spend the day. What about you? What attracts you to reading? I was sitting round thinking why people love reading so much and what’s the attraction to it, as I ponder wow there are so many!
There are many clues that reveal exactly who the avid readers are in your bunch are while also revealing who they aren’t as well. In the social zone, bookworm’s often stick out like happy nerds should! Being a nerd isn’t at all a bad thing. I’m passing out compliments. See, there are great things that come as a result of being a book fan all your life.
For one thing, most people who read regularly have the keen skills to think and communicate exceptionally well. This is not to say that people who don’t get hyped about a new book are crappy readers at all. But you know you’ve seen the magic spark in the eye of those who love what they get out of educating them selves with the words they read. Hands down bookies are pretty much honored by others and this is probably because of the need for uncanny communication in the world. Wouldn’t you agree that we can use more of it?! Indeed yes!
The ageless Art of Reading expands the mental faculties by leaps and bounds. In fact, reading is documented as one of the most satisfying pleasures of people today. Reading is more than merely staring onto a paper with words on it.. there’s also a combination of eye, hand and mental action that make it a bit of an exercise.
There are other elements at work when you’re reading but reading is mainly a mental thing. Reading and watching television are somewhat comparable. Although honestly, reading will make you smarter in the end. Think about it! Sitting and watching a screen versus actively processing and breaking down information by reasoning to arrive at a conclusion that sheds light on the information in the book..yes this process takes time plus patience! But that’s exactly why reading when compared to watching ‘the box’ still have a considerable distance between them as far as overall rewards are concerned.
Still, reading even improves your vocabulary too. So at this point you’re expanding your mind and gain clarity through your brain by reading this article thus utilizing your eyes to plant the mixture of information you are mentally assimilating. Reading boosts your vocabulary through comprehension. A lot of book lovers have an extensive vocabulary. This is helpful in school, work and in interacting with others.
The memory is another area that’s improved through on going reading. Remember when you played a game of match or crosswords how you got sharper on your word play as a result of playing a game? In reading you have to catch details, story plots, scenes, characters, descriptions and facts too. All this mental multitasking builds your brain up in more ways than most of us know.
Although reading is certainly fun, creative and even a great hobby or past time. The discipline it builds in you are guaranteed to enrich all areas of your life! There’s no better time than the present so Get your reading on!
Life is full of blissful opportunities that give us a fair chance to get better each and everyday. I know you may be saying ‘yeah right’. Just wait, I’m sure you’ll agree with me after you hear a little more. Trust me, its not the easiest task to get into a routine for most people, i get that. I know all about the challenges that come with having to choose to do what most of us want to do but most people want the structure and benefits of a routine only without doing the work on the front end.
There always has and will be a simple way to do almost everything. Now one key to getting into an assassin proof routine is to first INTEND IT! I’ll say it again, its easy to create a routine, but you have to do some prep work to put it together first. All routines start with a great idea! Its well known that all people have the same choices to improve themselves at any given time in life, but only if they want to of course.
In short, we are the only ones who are responsible for our actions. Obstructions will come and go along the way. The most amazing thing is that we have a choice to do better at anytime and that challenges will come as well. Just think about it, when these life altering situations come, we know we have another great reason to make a real change in our lives and for the better too.
Do you think time management will be hard? It will be whatever you make it. I know your schedule is in hyper overload mode plus there is so much going on in the midst of your life. Just hear me out now. Answer this for me: Do you get out of the best fussing and falling all over the place, wishing that you could do something else? Do you gulp down coffee and other stimulants its your last cup of water, only to find that you don’t have any energy in the end? And when you do feel energy, it feels more like an adrenaline rush before a race than real sustainable energy. Hey we have all been there or someone of us have at least.
Take a deep breath and know this, You don’t have to rush to do anything. Its time to take your time back and start living balanced and fruitfully. Do you often wish you could be more organized, only your brain isn’t doing what you had planned for it to do for you, when you need it to? If this is you some of the time, even if its only YOU once a month its time to make a change. Its time to take to the bridge, To move a mountain and master this thing!
You can do this time thing, contrary to what somebody may have told you. Trust me when I say this… You Don’t have to like organization or schedules to get into the Art of Personal Time Management. You just don’t. I know you’re probably thinking ‘why should I do anything that I’m not interested in?’ I hear you loud and clear! That’s some of the best logic but that’s not what we’re doing this for. It’s not about logic and comforting our ‘likes’. It’s about one thing and that’s all! YOU want something different. So you gotta change the game to make scoring possible, otherwise you may never get to the next step on your latter of accomplishments. Is it safe to say that you would enjoy a more efficient day? Alright now, let’s talk about how you can get there.
Planning has never been considered a fun thing to do, at least not for the majority of the world anyway. However I’m going to show you why planning is easier than you ever thought it was. Planning is fun, it can be if even it’s not now. Trust me on this, once you see the benefits of a well thought out and executed plan you, that’s it! You will enjoy the fruits of your labor that much more. Once you have a list of what you want to do better or more efficiently, the next step is to get to work on how you’re going to complete this.
Allow me to give an example: For instance if you want to make a simple change like: get to work earlier, you have to plan a new routine to do it. I know you might be saying to yourself…’But why would I want to do that, get to work early?’. I know you may think I’m crazy by now but hear me out.
If getting to work early was one of your goals, say to yourself: That’s easy! Now measure the pro’s against the co’s to motivate you that much more! Benefits: The early employee gets all the good stuff. I know you’ve heard the phrase ‘the early bird gets the worm.’ If you’ve ever gotten to work early, you know the perks completely outweigh the negative feeling you may have had about going to work in the first place. Still don’t think I’m serious? Be honest now, could you use a few more hours on the job? I mean to make extra money and to get stuff done. Yes!? OK then here’s how you do it.
First you need to decide how early you want to get there. Also work out what you will actually do once you get to work to pass the time as well. Time is money so there is no reason to plan on the fly when you can plan in advance. The Art of Personal Time Management is all about moving step by step.
Plans are subject to changing. Its true, all plans you make can and will change in the future for whatever reason. You can have a plan A and B. And if the situation calls for it then whip out your trusty plan C. Whatever you do, you have to do something. So back to the example. You want to get to work early so you can get a running start on all your work. So here’s a way to sketch out your routine: Decide what to wear, pick it out and lay it out. What skills do you use at work? Now, what will boost or balance your skills for work..in advance? Make sure you plan to get enough sleep, maybe you want to get up within enough time to workout and then maybe eat before you start working or eat when you get to work. Most importantly you will absolutely want to leave your home early enough to get through traffic and into your office smoothly and safely.
As you visualize the potential of accomplishing this. Take a good guess on how much time it will take you to do it. Remember you can always revert to one of your secondary plans B or C, if you need to. But what exactly is a routine anyway? Let’s see it how it’s defined: Routine: A sequence of actions regularly followed; a fixed program. Other ways to describe what a routine is: regular – ordinary – usual – customary – everyday.
At first, it may seem boring and uneventful to get into a routine. But trust me it’s just the opposite of that. It takes great determination to get to the next level in life. And your routine is one way to revolutionize your efforts to getting things done thus getting to the top of your game faster than ever before!
One last tip i want to mention about routines is that your brain is ONLY needed to process why, how to do something and how long it will take to get to get to the next level in your life or project. See once you start your routine and after you allow your brain to do its processing work you can safely ignore it while you’re following your already ‘well thought out’ time management system. Don’t get caught up in the details. Move on swiftly to finishing exactly what you started.
The problem that most people run into when they re-think decisions they have already made and entertain the thought to do something different from their original agenda. We all know our brain is just a tool to process information and carry out micro detailed super-duper important bodily processes.
The problem with thinking about the already- well- thought- out- plan is stopping what one had started. If you stop a routine you may just fall back to the point you started from. So don’t stop without a damn good reason, in fact don’t stop at all..just pause if you need to for a day or so. Planning is a life-long skill that you will always benefit from! Don’t let your dreams fall through the cracks just because the body or brain doesn’t want to complete or do something we want it to do. You Don’t have to follow your thoughts, EVER.
If we want the ultimate success for us, we have to follow through no matter what it takes to get there! Let me ask you one more question…You trust yourself don’t you? I know you said yes, so I’ll say this: If you trust yourself then trust your freakin decisions and respect them to the utmost. Be steadfast! You deserve the best! So give love to yourself by staying focused. If you want it all, you have to give it your all. Bliss and balance to you. What are some struggles you’ve had while trying to stay on your routine, time management game? Please share your thoughts and experiences. Thank you, now go forth and get it done already 🙂
Humility (adjectival form: humble) is the quality of being modest and respectful. Humility, in various interpretations, is widely seen as a virtue in many religious and philosophical traditions, being connected with notions of transcendent unity with the universe or the divine, and of egolessness.
Humility leads to strength and not to weakness. It is the highest form of self-respect to admit mistakes and to make amends for them- John (Jay) McCloy
The Law Of Humility: Whatever one resists, persists in their life. Resistance feeds too much energy into unwanted things. Instead of being active, often it is important to be inactive. Clarity comes when light is allow to come in and shine. Slowing down and ignoring what one does not desire in their life is so much more effective in clearing away the unwanted. Since one is not resisting, life carries on with ease. One can learn a great deal about who someone is inside simply by observing things people strongly object. The path to living truth takes unmoving great character, temperance and also humility. To grow to the greatest heights, one must be willing to let go, be thankful and celebrate life. When force is erased from the spirit then morality and inner power can be seen from near or far by all. Greatness is having the will to be able to stop forward movement when necessary. It is in the ability to pause where insight can come through to gently guide us to balance.
He who speaks without modesty will find it difficult to make his words good- Confucius
Humility (noun) the quality or condition of being humble; modest opinion or estimate of one’s own importance, rank, etc.
A perfect example of humility can be see here in the great Chinese oracle system called The I Ching. Even though there is an overflowing amount of inner force. The way to unlock the boundless power within is to reflect on the earthly experience daily and meditate on living truth. Without rightness there is no greatness. Once one taps into the gentle way of movement even in the midst of great power, peace and harmony flow undisturbed but ever building silently, simply.
The I Ching 34th hexagram this: THE POWER OF THE GREAT. (Perseverance furthers)
The hexagram points to a time when inner worth mounts with great force and comes to power. But its strength has already passed beyond the median line, hence there is danger that one may rely entirely on one’s own power and forget to ask what is right. There is danger too that, being intent on movement, we may not wait for the right time. Therefore the added statement that perseverance furthers. For that is truly great power which does not degenerate into mere force but remains inwardly united with the fundamental principles of right and of justice. When we understand this point—namely, that greatness and justice must be indissolubly united—we understand the true meaning of all that happens in heaven and on earth.
Modesty is a shining light; it prepares the mind to receive knowledge, and the heart for truth- Madam Guizot